Kalley Roderick is my Pen/Pseudonym. I will someday in the future reveal my real name when given permission by my children. Until that happens I will be using my Pen name. I am the wife of an alcoholic sex addict and have been his scapegoat, prudish smokescreen, verbal whipping post & more for over 20 years. He has committed adultery, lied, cheated along with many other crimes. This is my journey out of a verbal domestic abuse dance, adultery, surviving being the partner of an sex addict & the attempt to clean up the path of wreckage of the past made by my husband in his "OTHER" life. Along with my frequently failing attempt to handle the entirety of my circumstances with grace.